Ep.3 Daddy Duty: Essential Pregnancy Appointments for Partners (What to Expect, Questions to Ask)

Ever wondered how to be the ultimate support system for your partner during pregnancy? Get ready to unlock the secrets of prenatal appointments and discover how dads-to-be can transform these check-ups into powerful bonding experiences. Join me, Claude, on this episode of Instructions Not Included as we break down the essential role fathers play during these appointments. From understanding your baby's development to making sure your voice is heard, you'll gain practical tips and strategies to stay informed, involved, and ready for fatherhood.

Listen as we dive into the art of asking thoughtful questions and learn how to advocate for your partner like a pro. With insights on providing emotional support, engaging with the doctor, and taking meticulous notes, you'll be fully prepared for this exciting journey. Plus, we pose some stimulating questions to the dads out there—what are you eager to teach your child? How are you navigating the complexities of pregnancy? Tune in, interact, and don't miss out on this invaluable guide to making the most of every prenatal appointment. Like, subscribe, and join the conversation on Instructions Not Included!

Transcript

Claude: 0:00

Welcome to Instructions Not Included. This is Episode 3, daddy Duty Essential Pregnancy Appointment for Partners. Let's get to it, thank you, welcome back dads.

Claude: 0:11

This is Instructions, Not Included. We're on episode three.

Claude: 1:00

Daddy du ty. I am your host, Claude, and today, on Instructions Not Included, we'll be tackling important topic those prenatal appointments. Now, let's be honest, sometimes these appointments can feel a little overwhelming, especially for those dads to be. But listen up. These visits are crucial for you to stay informed and involved in your partner's pregnancy journey. All right, let's gear up for daddy duty. Here's the deal, dads prenatal appointments are more than just a doc visit for mom. They are a chance for you to ask questions, address concerns and be an active participant in the process. So what could you expect from these appointments? Well, it depends on the stage of the pregnancy, but generally, you'll hear updates on your baby's development.

Claude: 1:58

You'll get a blood test. You may get some ultrasounds done, possibly even get a little peek at that little one. While you're getting an ultrasound, you know and discuss any questions that you might have. So it's important to be now , remember, knowledge is power. Here's some tips to get the most out of those appointments. For one come prepared. Write down any questions you have you or your partner might have in advance. Number two be present. Pay attention to the doctor's explanations and don't hesitate to ask for clarification. Number three take notes. You might not remember everything, so jot down some key points and information and advocate for your partner. Speak up if you have any concerns or if your partner feels uncomfortable. Speak up for your partner.

Claude: 3:07

This next section is the art of asking questions. One of the best ways to be involved is by asking thoughtful questions. Here's a few prompts just to get you started. You can ask general questions like how's the baby developing? Are there any risks or concerns at this stage that we may have? You can ask specific questions like what kind of prenatal testing is available? What are the pros and cons of each option? Ask questions about labor and delivery, like what are our birthing options? You can ask questions about parenthood, like what resources are available to new parents. Don't be afraid to ask anything. No question is too small or too big. The more informed you are, the more confidently you can support your partner and prepare for your new arrival.

Claude: 3:58

Attending prenatal appointments isn't just about showing up. It's about actively participating. Here's some ways to truly embrace your daddy duty. One hold your partner's hand. Emotional support and comfort during what could be a complex process will really help her out. Be her voice. Like I said before, if your partner feels shy or overwhelmed, don't hesitate to speak up for her. Engage with the doctor, ask questions, express your concerns and actively listen to the doctor's advice. Remember, dads. Your presence at these appointments matters. It shows your commitment to your partner and excitement for the journey ahead. A quick quote Fatherhood is like the greatest adventure I've ever known.

Claude: 4:56

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Claude: 4:58

Before we close, as always, I like to ask the dads a few questions. Questions for the dads. Question number one dads to be, what are you most excited to teach your child? Is there a special skill, value or hobby you can't wait to share? Question two beyond the doctor's appointments and beyond the doctor's explanations, what resources have you found helpful in understanding your partner's pregnancy and preparing for fatherhood? Question number three imagine the doctor is explaining a medical term or procedure you don't quite understand. How would you approach this situation? Would you ask for clarification, take notes or just research it later on your own? All right, in closing, dads, those prenatal appointments might seem like the doctor's office marathon, but remember there's a chance for you to be that supportive partner in this incredible journey. So show up, ask questions and be present for your growing family.

Claude: 6:12

This little miracle isn't just happening to your partner, it's happening to the both of you. So, dads, head over to the comment section. Share your experiences. Don't forget to like and subscribe to Instructions Not Included for more pregnancy prep talk designed just for dads. See you on the next episode.

Claude: 6:32

See you on the next episode.